What’s Right For Me? Now updated and available!

The decisions that we make about our pregnancy and childbirth journeys can shape our experiences, health and lives, as well as those of our families.

But many of those decisions are complex, confusing and overwhelming. They are often made harder by the fact that we live in a world full of information, options and opinions, which aren’t all woman-centred.

I am delighted to announce the publication of What’s Right For Me? Making decisions in pregnancy and childbirth, which explains the different perspectives and approaches that people take towards childbirth. It offers tips, tools and ways of thinking that will help women and families find the path that’s right for them.

“This is a wonderful book. I love its chatty style and real respect for women’s rights.” – Beverley Beech, Formerly Hon Chair, Association for Improvements in the Maternity Services.

buy from am uk button“What’s Right For Me? Making decisions in pregnancy and childbirth” is available in paperback from good bookstores or you can buy it online from Amazon UK, USA, Germany, France, Spain, Italy, Japan, Brazil, Canada, and Mexico.

buy from am us buttonIt’s also available for Kindle in many areas, including Amazon UK, US, Australia, Germany, France, SpainItaly, The Netherlands, Japan, Brazil, Canada, Mexico, and India.


While I was writing the updated version of ‘Inducing Labour: making informed decisions‘, I realised that we needed something different as well; a book that looked in more depth at issues like risk; a book that would serve as a signpost and a guide to help women and families all their consider birth-related decisions. So here it is; a book which contains friendly but in-depth discussions and loads of tools and ways of thinking which aren’t about a single topic (like induction or vitamin K or Group B Strep) but which I hope will help people better understand the landscape generally and the options that they have in making decisions about pregnancy and childbirth.


What’s in it?

Some of the key chapter headings and topics that I discuss include:

  • What does the childbirth decision making landscape look like?
  • What is informed decision making?
  • Perspectives on childbirth
  • Putting risk into perspective
  • The risks of focusing on risk
  • Considering your own beliefs about life, birth and information
  • A few tips on weighing up information
  • Finding a path through the information jungle
  • Understanding birth intervention
  • Real-life birth decision making


The book also contains a ‘references, resources and reading’ section and a series of appendices which offer information on issues such as getting information about birth rights, changing care provider, defining consent and responding to fear-based information. The appendices also include expanded versions of Sara’s popular blog posts, ‘how to cancel a labour induction’ and ‘three things I wish every woman knew about pregnancy and birth knowledge’.


About the Author

Dr Sara Wickham is a midwife, educator and researcher who has been writing and lecturing about induction of labour for more than twenty years.She also wrote her PhD thesis on this topic.

Sara is the author or editor of fifteen books, has edited three midwifery journals and provides in-person and online educational and consultancy services for midwifery, medical and health-related practitioners and organisations around the world.

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A Few Frequently Asked Questions

Where can I get it? This book is available from Amazon and good bookstores. We usually have copies at Sara’s workshops and events. If you can’t get it in your country, please use our contact form and we’ll do our best to help. We’re also happy to mail out orders of 5 or more books if you want to get a few for clients, colleagues or friends.

Buy from Amazon UKHow much is it? The recommended retail price is UK £10.00. It varies slightly on international sites.

buy from am us buttonIs it available as an e-book? Yes, the Kindle version is available from Amazon UK, US, Australia, Germany, France, SpainItaly, The Netherlands, Japan, Brazil, Canada, Mexico, and India.